I haven’t really written in awhile. I have posted, but mostly about my fundraiser because I am trying really hard to get my arrears paid off.
But yeah. On the 17th of August was my court appearance regarding the assault charge with a weapon. Anyways, I spoke to the Duty Council, and he sent me to Legal Aid to get a certificate for a lawyer.
My ex partner showed up. Saying some bullshit that he loves me and blah blah blah. I held up my court papers and said “you call this love??” Wow.
He was also asking to see our 1 year old daughter, which is pretty fucked up considering he wasn’t really involved with her before. I used to have to get really upset with him just to get him to spend a little time with her. Heck, he made more of an effort with his God child than he ever has than with his own daughter! So what the fuck?
Anyways, what’s even more fucked up is that there’s a court order stating that I cannot be anywhere near him. What do I do if he’s coming to me, and harassing me?!
Anyways, regarding our daughter, I told him to talk to CAS. He said he did, and they told him to wait until court. Well, there’s your answer. But since he kept bugging me, I just told him to call Merrymount to get him to leave me the fuck alone. Not that any arrangements will be made until we go to family court. I don’t need another ex running off my child(ren) like a prior ex.
Anyways, I was pretty flustered after that. After I spoke with Legal Aid, they sent me away. And I thought they meant that was it for the day. So I went to my family lawyer to see what criminal lawyer he would recommend.
The next day, I called the recommended lawyer, and he asked when my next court appearance was. I realized I wasn’t given another date. So he asked if I made it in a court room yesterday, and I said no. They sent me away. At that point he said that there is probably a warrant for my arrest, and that I should get to the court house a.s.a.p and contact the duty council.
Yep. There was a misunderstanding/ miscommunication. So I went back to court, got the date I needed. And that pretty much brings you up to speed.
Today I met with my Criminal Law lawyer, and I basically had to tell him what happened on June 18th. I did. And he said he’d talk to the crown and will call me back later to tell me how it went.
Can you believe that my ex partner is claiming that I am uncleanly, and that I spend too much time on the Internet? Lmao. This is coming from a guy that racks up his phone bill to $800 due to his data usage. Meanwhile, when I was with him, I had no access to a phone, or Internet. Hence why I had to go to my daughter’s school just to call CAS for help. As for cleanliness? It was getting to a point where I was the only one doing chores while he drank. So yeah, he needs to take a good look in the mirror. Maybe all these accusations he’s shooting off is really about himself. Ahem, cleanliness? Hooked to the Internet? Cheating?!! I’m not the one that had a nude photo of an ex on my cellphone.
Oh another thing. His supposed “witnesses “, one is his drinking buddy that was supplying the alcohol that night. The other witness is his mother. His mother whom lives in another city. So how can she be a witness? Because he sent text messages?? He could be lying out of his ass of what actually happened for all she knows. Yup. You got some nice witnesses there bud.
As for family court…the affidavit my lawyer and I received where my ex partner is trying to get custody of our one year old. Of course he tries to paint a picture of his job and big family that is supposedly supportive. Okay, his family, from the 2 years I’ve been with him, I’ve realized that the local relatives aren’t really that supportive of him, and the only support he really has is his mother. His other relatives are nowhere to be seen in time of need. As for his job that he tries to glamourize. He works from 7am to 8pm. So just when is does he plan to be a parent to our daughter? And how does he plan to take her to all these programs that happen during the day?
His idea of parenting was to let her do whatever while he plays on his cellphone, or while he drinks. He is incapable of parenting, and to try to take my rights away when I’ve been doing all the work as a parent?? Wow.
I spoke to some people, some indigenous people, and they laugh at the situation and call him a bitch. They say the little dragon ordiment I hit him with is equivalent to throwing popcorn at his face. Grow some balls. I admit they made me laugh when they said that. But maybe I needed the laugh especially with everything that I am going through.
What else? I was counting on the CCB to pay off half the arrears. But thanks to my ex partner not doing his taxes. I won’t be getting that, and I’m pretty much stuck homeless until he does, or unless I can find a way to come up with $2,808.00 to pay off the arrears just so my housing application can be processed.
So yeah, I’m not too happy with him. I feel like men only exist to destroy your life. That’s probably why I’m pregnant with a boy. A boy to love, and to raise unlike these other men. Immature, irresponsible and vindictive. He won’t be a controlling fuckin douche bag to women, because he’ll be raised by women.
Anyways, that’s enough for the day. Thanks for reading. Peace and love- Pooks
“In the time of deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act.”
– George Orwell