Thats a Screencap of an email that I recently got from my eldest children’s father.
So if my eldest childrens fathers mother really needs to know. Yes. I’m done with his bullshit.
Ya know? Any type of relationship isn’t anything without trust or respect. I don’t have either of those from him, and quite honestly I’m done with having him waste so much of my time. I mean he’s gotta have every available moment I have. Nevermind his child. Its all about babbling to me about InfoWars, and Crystal and this fake illuminati gang that wants to kill him. I’ve been listening to this crap for 2 years. And I think for the sake of my own mental health, I’m taking myself out of the equation
If my eldest children’s father and Crystal can’t talk it out, then move the fuck on. It’s not rocket science.
Anyways, he seems to be more concerned about his access to me and what he can get from me than his access to his child.
I will not be made to feel forced to try to be friends with him. Been there, tried that. He has no idea what the meaning of a friend is. Hence, he has no friends.
And I will not be made to feel guilty because I am setting barriers. If and when his child wants to see him, CAS will be in touch. I am not going to be the one to “supervise” anymore, because thats bullcrap. He doesn’t visit his child. He visits me. And I am sick of him wasting my time with all this negative crap.
I don’t deserve that. We don’t deserve that. We deserve better than having someone talking apocalyptic or constantly ranting about pedophiles and rapists. My little ones don’t need to hear that either.
Like I said. I tried to be his friend, again. Just to basically have him turn around and say he doesn’t trust me. Okay then. Stop wasting my time. Bye. I’m not into fake friends. I’m sure I can make better connections.
He can still see his child, but not me. And if and when his child wants to see him, talk to CAS about how to go about that…without me to supervise.
Like I told him before. I don’t let my youngest children’s father stay over. I don’t hang out with my youngest children’s father. But we still co-parent. Ya know? He’s moved on with his life. For some reason my eldest children’s father won’t let me move on with mine. So no, we should not hang out. We are not friends. Friends have trust in each other, and as he clearly expressed the last time he was here, I don’t have that.
So please, do not pressure me into a false friendship.
Plus, don’t you think I should be with my children, or painting than listening to him babble for hours like Alex Jones?
I am trying to better my life, and go forward. Not backwards.
I don’t have to be his friend. He’s an ex.
Peace and love – Pooks
Pooks82-TheVault 